Now I will say shocking things.
However, they are not shocking for everyone, but only for the men who perceive the world at the medieval level. Curiously enough, there are women among them.
So, if a girl wears a mini-skirt, it does not mean that she is a debaucher and that she can be insulted, can be addressed squeamishness, whistle after her and ring at the horn of the car.
Furthermore, if the girl wore a mini-skirt, came to the disco and drank, it does not mean that she immediately turned into a libertine, and then she can be grabbed by the hands, hugging, talking nasty things.
Farther, if a drunken girl in a miniskirt has agreed to go with someone from a disco to his home; it does not mean that she became his slave, and that this person now has the right to rape her there. Yes. No matter how ironically this will sound for some men, even in this situation, and even being at someone’s home, the girl has the right to refuse closeness. And the words “she came by herself” are not an argument.
Do you know why?
Here is the most important thing!
Because she is equal in rights with a man. She is the same person as a man. And she can change her mind about having sex at any time just like a man.
I understand that someone will find it difficult to reconcile with this, someone will not be able to get used to this idea for a long time. For them, “she gave an excuse,” it means that she is already “to blame.”
Their perplexity can be compared to the feelings of the ancient Romans, who would be told that the plebeians can also have rights, or with the feelings of American planters, who would be told that blacks are the same citizens as they are, or with the feelings of Europeans a hundred and fifty years ago, when the women manifestos led to the equality of women in Europe.
No matter how hard it will be to get used to it, it will be necessary because it is already the 21 century.
P.S. Well, I will score the last nail in the coffin of obscurantism.
Many will be surprised, but even their own wife has the right to refuse to her husband in the vicinity, and his harassment can be regarded as an attempt at rape. Because the bride does not become the property of her husband after the wedding. She, as before, is an equal citizen of our society.
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